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A discussion group for women interested in exploring the gifts, myths, and challenges of growing older.

All meetings of Rare Women have been switched to Zoom for the foreseeable future.  
​See below for information about joining a particular meeting.  Please attend no more than one group meeting per week so that everyone will have more time for connecting.
​Wash your hands and stay well!

Note: You should not be asked for a password if you use the links below.  If you need a password, it is the zip code for the church.    Contact rarewomen@c3huu.org if you want to be added to our email list or if you have a problem logging in.

See the table of Discussion Topics below.
The words for lighting and extinguishing our chalice(s) can be found in a pdf file here.

We have begun sharing our lives decade by decade. 
Questions to consider for each decade can be found here.
See the schedule below to find out when each group 
is discussing each decade.


For connecting with video and audio:
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Group A (Joann Haggerty, facilitator): 1st and 3rd Mondays, 2-4 pm
On March 1st, they will discuss ages 10-19. 
Questions to consider for each decade can be found here.
https://us02web.zoom.us/j/87374474785
​Meeting ID: 873 7447 4785

Group B (Bonnie Gilliom, facilitator): Every Thursday, 10 am - noon
On March 4th, they will continue discussing ages 0-9. 
​Questions to consider for each decade can be found here.
https://us04web.zoom.us/j/404314189
Meeting ID: 404 314 189

Group C (Susan Blanchard, facilitator): Every Thursday, 1:30-3:30 pm
On March 4th, they will discuss ages 10-19. 
​Questions to consider for each decade can be found here.
https://us04web.zoom.us/j/486172652
​Meeting ID: 486 172 652

If you want to dial in, call 1-646-558-8656. 
You will need to enter the meeting ID and the password (church's zip code).  

We are not old.  We are rare!

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I Am Not Old

I am not old…she said
I am rare.
I am the standing ovation
At the end of the play.
I am the retrospective
Of my life as art
I am the hours
Connected like dots
Into good sense
I am the fullness
Of existing.
You think I am waiting to die…
But I am waiting to be found
I am a treasure.
I am a map.
And these wrinkles are
Imprints of my journey
Ask me anything.
- Samantha Reynold

meeting attendance

You can attend any one of the three dates listed for each topic, but please attend only one meeting per topic.   Meeting reminders will be sent via email (fill out the form below to be added) from rarewomen@c3huu.org and will also appear in the Weekly Announcements and Newsletter.

Please scroll down to read our Meeting Guidelines since they are very important!

Meetings begin/end with reading chalice lighting/extinguishing words together.  These can be found in a pdf file here.

discussion topics

Meeting guidelines

Before the meeting starts, attendees are encouraged to put on their name tags.
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We will start on time with the lighting of the chalice and will extinguish the chalice 15 minutes before the conclusion of the session so that individuals have a chance to connect.

Each meeting will begin with a 1-minute per person introduction and check-in time.

What is said in our meetings stays in each meeting unless the speaker gives permission to share.

Everybody has a chance to talk once before anyone talks a second time, but no one is required to speak.

Everyone will listen attentively and respectfully  to each speaker without engaging in cross talk with others.

We will pause for a breath or two after each person finishes so that there is time to assimilate what they said before the next person speaks.
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We will use "I" statements to share personal experiences and avoid the temptation to offer advice, lecture, or preach.  We are not here to "fix" anyone.

The group is intended to be helpful in building friendships and being supportive, but it is NOT therapy.

The facilitator is responsible for monitoring the pace to make sure that each person has a chance to share her thoughts on the topic within the time period allotted for the meeting.

You can also send email directly to us at rarewomen@c3huu.org or by clicking HERE.

TED talks that might be of interest:
The Secret to Living Longer Might be Your Social Life by Susan Pinker
What Makes A Good Life - Lessons from the Longest Study on Happiness by Robert Waldinger
​How to Live to 100+ by Dan Buettner